Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 1, 2013
Sirach 3:17-18, 20,
28-29; Psalm 68; Hebrews 12:18-19, 22-24; Luke 14:1, 7-14
We
know when Jesus tells a good story because its message stays with us days after
it is told. In Luke’s Gospel, he tells a parable of a wedding banquet host and
the behavior of the invited guests who scramble to take the best seats at the
table of honor. It is easy to imagine many biblical Middle Easterners jockeying
to get there first to claim the prize because occupying open space is a virtue
in this culture. Some cultures will form queues and single-file lines, but the
Middle Eastern mentality is one that is more likened to swarming. You know this
is you navigate the streets in an automobile. It is akin to the full saying
that Jesuits like to make: “Get what you want first before all the selfish
people take it.”
We
like one of the points Jesus makes and we dismiss the other. That is not fair
to him. As he is speaking about what it means to be humble, we side with the
person who takes the lower seat and is brought to a higher place of prestige
and honor while secretly laughing at the person who gets displaced from his
seat of honor. God’s justice, we figure, will work in our favor if we act well and
the self-serving, arrogant people will be unceremoniously displaced from the
places they have usurped for themselves. We say in private conversations, “They
will be brought to the low place they rightfully deserve.”
The
point we do not like is when he tells the host to invite the poor, crippled,
lame, and blind because they cannot repay you for your generosity. He tells
them not to invite friends, relatives, and wealthy neighbors who will invite
you back in repayment. We run into all sorts of problems with this because
sometimes we just want to invite people with whom we feel comfortable and
familiar and we want to share an easy relaxed time. Other times it is to honor
a birthday, anniversary, and significant milestone. We also want to associate
with people from a common background, class, social, or educational level, and
we do not want to be with people we do not like, whose behavior is uncouth,
uncultured, or dysfunctional, whose political views are contrary to ours, or
those people who try to make us feel uncomfortable even when we are doing good
for them.
The
message of Jesus puts us in a quandary because we want to be able to love them,
and it makes us question what it means to be a brother or sister to someone who
has made different life-choices from us or to whom life has dealt an
unfortunate hand. We do not mind serving them or being generous to them or giving
them food, but we always think of them as ‘them,’ and ‘not us.’ Having grown up
with a sister with profound mental retardation, I was always accustomed to seeing
others curiously stare at her and hearing comments like, “Your family would be
better off if you sent her to a place that could care for her.” Of course, we
do not want anyone to have a glaring disability, but what type of society are
we when we choose not to care for our lesser fortunate brothers and sisters?
The
major point Jesus makes concerns humility and while we think we know what it
is, we tend not to hit the mark with it. For all intents and purposes, humility
means that you know who you are and you act consistent with that reality. Sometimes
we have an elevated impression of a quality or attribute, like intelligence,
artistic ability, or career capability and we think we deserve a promotion,
applause, or some honor for what we can do. Sometimes we think we mean more to
someone than we actually do. Just think of the mess we endure at weddings when
someone is not selected as ring bearer or maid of honor or those uncomfortable
family events when a relative is not invited because she is a curmudgeon and she
really does not see the way people will merely tolerate her because she is
family. We have the same disrespect at work when a meeting is held and we are
miffed because we are not invited and we are at a certain rank.
Of
course, we know those people who are prideful and arrogant and we do not like
their behavior, but we also have people who pridefully and arrogantly showcase
their humility, like the woman who insists that she be the last one to receive
the Eucharist because she is not worthy or the man who makes a big deal out of
letting everyone else go through the buffet line before he takes his food in
case the food runs out and someone else is deprived. Sadly, that is not
humility, but the person is working out of a different need.
Humility
means that you know who you are as you stand before God and others. Just be
yourself and be kind to others. Accept those who approach you – even if they
are blind, lame, crippled, or poor. You may have quite a bit to gain just by
being civil. All that Jesus wants from you is to do your best. It does not have
to be the very best, but it must be your own best. We have much to juggle in
life and we cannot perfect all our skills, and the best we can do is to keep
our hearts and minds open to new experiences that bring grace.
We
need input from others to help us see more clearly who we are because they will
help us see the illusions we hold about ourselves. We also need to stand before
Jesus and ask him for help in assessing our gifts and qualities. Both your loved
ones and Jesus will help you with tender care because they do not mean to
destroy you but to encourage and build you up. Once we see who we are, it is
easier for us to have compassion upon others and this is the time we begin to
help Jesus create God’s kingdom. Learn about who you are and let yourself be
loved as you are and you will find yourself like the person in Sirach, the
first reading, as one who is loved more than a giver of gifts. This love will
transform your life.
Themes for this Week’s Masses
First
Reading: Paul in First Thessalonians comforts those in the
early church who have seen their loved ones die before Jesus returns again for
them. He asks them to hold on as Jesus will unite both the living and the dead.
He tells them that the Lord will come again in his own time just as quickly as
labor pains spring upon a very pregnant woman. Therefore, we must be alert and
stay sober as we patiently await the Lord’s advent. In Colossians, Paul
rejoices when he learns the people hear the word of God and place their hope in
him alone. From the very beginning, Paul prays incessantly for the Colossian
community blessing them with all spiritual wisdom so they may be delivered from
the power of darkness. The great Colossians hymn is sung placing Jesus as the
head of the Church and the image of the invisible God. Because of what he did
for us, we were able to be reconciled to God and made heirs and children to the
promises of God.
Gospel:
Jesus opens the scroll in the synagogue, reads it, and declares it fulfilled in
their hearing. He tells them that no prophet has been accepted in his native
town and that there is historical precedent for great biblical figures working
miracles outside of Israel. When Jesus returned to Capernaum, he went into a
synagogue where a man with an unclean spirit yelled out, “What have you to do
with us, Jesus of Nazareth?” He sent the spirit out of the man. He then healed
Peter’s mother-in-law and then townspeople from all over began to bring their
sick and diseased people to him for healing. As people pressed in on Jesus from
every side, he got into a boat to teach them. While there, he called Simon
Peter and asked him to fish in a new spot. When Simon Peter realized the great
catch of fish, he realized the power of Jesus and told him to depart from him
because he is a sinful man. The disciples of John begin to notice a difference
in the way the disciples of Jesus behave themselves with regard to dietary
laws. He tells them that they cannot fast because Jesus is with them as a representative
of God. There will come a time when he is taken from them and they cannot
feast. Jesus, with his disciples, was
passing through a field of grain and was eating the heads of the grain. The
Pharisees questioned why they were eating on the Sabbath and Jesus recalled the
actions of David and his army when they were hungry. The Pharisees were
silenced and stymied.
Saints of the Week
September 3: Gregory the Great (540-604) was the
chief magistrate in Rome and resigned to become a monk. He was the papal
ambassador to Constantinople, abbot, and pope. His charity and fair justice won
the hearts of many. He protected Jews and synthesized Christian wisdom. He
described the duties of bishops and promoted beautiful liturgies that often
incorporated chants the bear his name.
September 7: Stephen Pongracz (priest), Melchior
Grodziecki (priest), and Mark Krizevcanin (canon) of the Society of Jesus
were martyred in 1619 when they would not deny their faith in Slovakia. They
were chaplains to Hungarian Catholic troops, which raised the ire of Calvinists
who opposed the Emperor. They were brutally murdered through a lengthy process
that most Calvinists and Protestants opposed.
This Week in Jesuit History
·
Sep 1, 1907. The Buffalo Mission was
dissolved and its members were sent to the New York and Missouri Provinces and
the California Mission.
·
Sep 2, 1792. In Paris, ten ex-Jesuits
were massacred for refusing to take the Constitutional oath. Also in Paris
seven other fathers were put to death by the Republicans, among them Frs. Peter
and Robert Guerin du Rocher.
·
Sep 3, 1566. Queen Elizabeth visited
Oxford and heard the 26-year-old Edmund Campion speak. He was to meet her again
as a prisoner, brought to hear her offer of honors or death.
·
Sep 4, 1760. At Para, Brazil, 150 men
of the Society were shipped as prisoners, reaching Lisbon on December 2. They
were at once exiled to Italy and landed at Civita Vecchia on January 17, 1761.
·
Sep 5, 1758. The French Parliament
issued a decree condemning Fr. Busembaum's Medulla
Theologiae Moralis.
·
Sep 6, 1666. The Great Fire of London
broke out on this date. There is not much the Jesuits have not been blamed for,
and this was no exception. It was said to be the work of Papists and Jesuits.
King Charles II banished all the fathers from England.
·
Sep 7, 1773. King Louis XV wrote to
Clement XIV, expressing his heartfelt joy at the suppression of the Society.
Thank you for this excellent explanation of humility. So often we get caught up in false humility rather than admitting who we are and being comfortable in our own skin and being grateful to God our Creator.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lynda. We have to catch ourselves in daily situations because when we are mistreating, we react in all sorts of ways that says, "I don't deserve to be treated this way." You are right and it is because you are a person and not because you fit into a particular role.
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