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John Predmore, S.J., is a USA East Province Jesuit and was the pastor of Jordan's English language parish. He teaches art and directs BC High's adult spiritual formation programs. Formerly a retreat director in Gloucester, Massachusetts. Ignatian Spirituality is given through guided meditations, weekend-, 8-day, and 30-day Retreats based on The Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola. Ignatian Spirituality serves the contemporary world as people strive to develop a friendship with God.
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Thursday, February 28, 2019
The Seraphim Singers
Prayer: Juan Luis Vives
O Lord, the author and
persuader of peace, love, and goodwill, soften our hard and steely hearts and
warm our frozen and icy hearts, that we truly may be your disciples. Give us
grace even now to begin to show that heavenly life, where there is not hatred
but peace and love everywhere.
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
The Eighth Sunday of Ordinary Time
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The Eighth
Sunday of Ordinary Time
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March 3, 2019
1 Samuel 26:2, 7-9, 12-13, 22-23, Psalm 103; 1 Corinthians 15:45-49;
Luke 6:17, 27-38
Words are powerful, and hurtful words can scar a person’s soul for life. As we learn about the power of the words we use, we need self-discipline to speak in ways not to offend. We are judged on the words we speak and most of us want to express non-discrimination, forgiveness, understanding, and support. Our right use of speech brings about well-being and healing. Each day we can say something that has the capacity to help people and to relieve their suffering.
I want to suggest four simple practices that we can use to make our speech produce the good fruit we intend. The first practice is to always tell the truth, even in times of difficulty. Telling the truth is an art, it is not as simple as it seems; there is a good reason it is one of our commandments. The other person needs to hear the truth spoken in ways that they do not feel threatened and can hear the message, not the criticism. We tell the truth in loving and protective ways. We do not own the truth, we might have a perception that is biased or incomplete. Be skillful and gentle. Don’t lie, don’t avoid conflict, or turn the truth-upside down. Lying is dangerous and only causes harm. We have to respect the truth, but in those times when it is too shocking, we have to be very gentle because we have experience that people have spoken the truth violently or by attacking, and this only causes harm.
Solid relationship are built on truth. Trust is earned and takes a long time to develop. Even the most skilled words cause pain, but pain can heal when we speak the right words. Above all, the relationship has to endure. Suffering can be beneficial, and we can learn from it.
The second practice is to avoid exaggerating because it takes you away from the truth. Think about the words you want to use. Choose them selectively so you are articulating accurately. Be balanced and descriptive in the words you choose so that you lessen the drama. When you use superlatives words, people stop believing in you. When you are using absolute or superlative words in your anger, others might think you are making an issue larger than it is to justify and express your anger.
The third practice is to be consistent with the words you use from person to person. We cannot say one thing to one person and something contrary to another person. Be true to your words and do not change your position to suit your situation. Words need to have integrity because they reveal character.
The fourth practice is to learn how to use words that create a peaceful culture. Avoid using words that insult, are cruel and abusive or condemning. Sometimes this means we have to learn a new vocabulary that creates a positive culture. The goal is to develop a culture to strengthen existing relationships.
Words can nourish ourselves and another person, and they can convey compassion and understanding. Words can inspire confidence and openness. Suffering is brought about by wrong speech that is unkind, untruthful, or violent, which lacks the means for reconciliation. Loving speech conveys insight and understanding that can heal. The one who hears these words feel wonderful. These are the words that bear good fruit and reveal the goodness of our soul.
Scripture for Daily Mass
First Reading:
Monday: (Sirach 17) To the
penitent God provides a way back, he encourages those who are losing hope and
has chosen for them the lot of truth. Return to him and give up sin, pray to
the LORD and make your offenses few.
Tuesday: (Sirach 35) To keep the
law is a great oblation, and he who observes the commandments sacrifices a
peace offering. In works of charity one offers fine flour,
and when he gives alms he presents his sacrifice of praise. To refrain from evil pleases the LORD, and to avoid injustice is an atonement.
and when he gives alms he presents his sacrifice of praise. To refrain from evil pleases the LORD, and to avoid injustice is an atonement.
Wednesday: (Joel 2) Rend your
hearts, not your garments, and return to the LORD, your God. For gracious and
merciful is he, slow to anger, rich in kindness, and relenting in punishment.
Thursday: (Deuteronomy 30) Moses
said to the people: "Today I have set before you life and prosperity,
death and doom. If you obey the commandments of the LORD, your God, which I
enjoin on you today, loving him, and walking in his ways, and keeping his
commandments, statutes and decrees, you will live and grow numerous
Friday (Isaiah 58) This, rather,
is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs
of the yoke; Setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke;
Sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own.
Sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own.
Saturday (Isaiah 58) If you remove
from your midst oppression, false accusation and malicious speech; If you
bestow your bread on the hungry and satisfy the afflicted;
Then light shall rise for you in the darkness, and the gloom shall become for you like midday.
Then light shall rise for you in the darkness, and the gloom shall become for you like midday.
Gospel:
Monday: (Mark 10) As Jesus was
setting out on a journey, a man ran up, knelt down before him, and asked him, "Good
teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?"
Jesus answered him, "Why do you call me good? No one is good but God alone.
Jesus answered him, "Why do you call me good? No one is good but God alone.
Tuesday: (Mark 10) Jesus said,
"Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has given up house or brothers or
sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and for the sake
of the Gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present
age.
Wednesday (Matthew 6) But when
you pray, go to your inner room, close the door, and pray to your Father in
secret. And your Father who sees in secret will repay you.
Thursday (Luke 9) Jesus said to
his disciples: "The Son of Man must suffer greatly and be rejected by the
elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed and on the third day
be raised."
Friday (Matthew 9) The disciples
of John approached Jesus and said, "Why do we and the Pharisees fast much,
but your disciples do not fast?" Jesus answered them, "Can the
wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them?
Saturday (Luke 5) Jesus saw a
tax collector named Levi sitting at the customs post.
He said to him, "Follow me." And leaving everything behind, he got up and followed him. Then Levi gave a great banquet for him in his house, and a large crowd of tax collectors and others were at table with them.
He said to him, "Follow me." And leaving everything behind, he got up and followed him. Then Levi gave a great banquet for him in his house, and a large crowd of tax collectors and others were at table with them.
Saints of the Week
March
5: Mardi Gras is your last chance to eat meat before
Lent. This is the last day of Carnival (Carne- meat, Goodbye – vale). Say
goodbye to meat as we begin the fasting practices tomorrow.
March 6: Ash Wednesday is the customary beginning to the season of Lent. A penitential time marked by increased fasting, prayer and almsgiving, we begin our 40-day tradition of sacrifice as we walk the way of Jesus that ends at the Cross during Holy Week. Lent is a time of conversion, a time to deepen one’s relationship with Christ, for all roads lead to his Cross of Suffering and Glory.
March 6: Ash Wednesday is the customary beginning to the season of Lent. A penitential time marked by increased fasting, prayer and almsgiving, we begin our 40-day tradition of sacrifice as we walk the way of Jesus that ends at the Cross during Holy Week. Lent is a time of conversion, a time to deepen one’s relationship with Christ, for all roads lead to his Cross of Suffering and Glory.
March 7: Perpetua and Felicity (d. 203), were two catechumens arrest and
killed during a persecution in North Africa. Perpetua was a young noblewoman
who was killed alongside her husband, their young son, and their pregnant
slave, Felicity. They were baptized while under arrest and would not renounce
their faith. Felicity was excused from death because it was unlawful to kill a
pregnant woman, but she gave birth prematurely three days before the planned
execution. They were flogged, taunted by wild beasts, and then beheaded. They
appear in the First Eucharistic Prayer.
March 8: John of God (1495-1550), was a Portuguese soldier of fortune who
was brought to Spain as a child. He was a slave master, shepherd, crusader,
bodyguard and peddler. As he realized that he frittered away his life, he sought
counsel from John of Avila. He then dedicated his life to care for the sick and
the poor. He formed the Order of Brothers Hospitallers and is the patron saint
of hospitals and the sick.
March 9: Frances of Rome (1384-1440), was born into a wealthy Roman family
and was married at age 13. She bore six children and when two died in infancy,
she worked to bring the needs of the less fortunate to others. She took food to
the poor, visited the sick, cared for the needy in their homes. When other
women joined in her mission, they became Benedictine oblates. She founded a
monastery for them after her husband's death.
This Week in Jesuit History
·
Mar
3, 1595. Clement VIII raised Fr. Robert Bellarmine to the Cardinalate, saying
that the Church had not his equal in learning.
·
Mar
4, 1873. At Rome, the government officials presented themselves at the
Professed House of the Gesu for the purpose of appropriating the greater part
of the building.
·
Mar
5, 1887. At Rome, the obsequies of Fr. Beckx who died on the previous day. He
was 91 years of age and had governed the Society as General for 34 years. He is
buried at San Lorenzo in Campo Verano.
·
Mar
6, 1643. Arnauld, the Jansenist, published his famous tract against Frequent
Communion. Fifteen French bishops gave it their approval, whereas the Jesuit
fathers at once exposed the dangers in it.
·
Mar
7, 1581. The Fifth General Congregation of the Society bound the professors of
the Society to adhere to the doctrine of St Thomas Aquinas.
·
Mar
8, 1773. At Centi, in the diocese of Bologna, Cardinal Malvezzi paid a surprise
visit to the Jesuit house, demanding to inspect their accounting books.
·
Mar
9, 1764. In France, all Jesuits who refused to abjure the Society were ordered
by Parliament to leave the realm within a month. Out of 4,000 members only five
priests, two scholastics, and eight brothers took the required oath; the others
were driven into exile.
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