This homily was given at the beginning of the school year at a gathering of staff and faculty.
Twenty miles
south of the spot where Moses pointed the wandering Israelites to their new
land that flowed with milk and honey, stands a lonely mountain peak that
overlooks the lowest place on earth. Across from it, the Dead Sea, sat the
Essene monastery where John the Baptist may have frequented. It is not highly
desirable real estate, but it was the spa where King Herod would safely throw
lavish parties amidst the mountains of rock that served as natural defensive
borders. Herod and his guests needed to be fit in order to scale the vertical
ascent that led to this protected enclave. On a clear night, if you squinted,
you might be able to see Mount Zion and the city of peace - Jerusalem, but
their arduous trek to this peak made them feel distanced from the holy
activities at the Temple. I walked around this former palace. It was grand in
my imagination but exceedingly small in its dimensions and I peered into the
room where Salome’s dance was held. With all those guests, where did she have
room to dance? It must have not been that exotic after all. Surely, John the
Baptist would have been imprisoned upstairs and outside in the scorching sun by
day and the unforgiving cold at night. As I sat down to begin my prayers, my
heart erupted and I bleated out this question to God: John died in this small,
unnoticed place because of a grudge? How meaningless! I thought: we must never
allow our unresolved needs to snuff out the life of another person again. Yet,
it happens daily.
We
kill the spirit of another person when we hold onto grudges or feel dishonored
because of an incident we do not fully investigate or understand. We snuff the
life out of another person when we allow our career ambitions and our puffed-up
sense of self to lose sight of the goal or mission. We thwart the growth of
another person when we feel threatened by someone else’s authority or we cannot
effectively establish our own positions of authority. We marginalize and
exclude people or act with passive-aggression. Our unmet needs, our
insecurities, or fears turn us into Herodias and Herod – and we may not even
realize the effect we have upon God’s kingdom.
Fortunately,
we are a community of faith that wakes up each day with new opportunities to
establish right relations with each other. From whichever faith tradition we
come, we are a people of goodwill and we can start again. We are in a jubilee
year – a Year of Mercy, and mercy is defined as “loving enough to enter into
the chaos of another person.” Mercy is the quality that is victorious over
hatred, violence, and sin, and a mature understanding of sin is “a failure to
even bother to love.” Mercy bothers us to love - even those who we do not want
to love. We are God’s people of mercy, and mercy is not easy to understand or to
put into practice, but for people of goodwill, it is not merely an option, but
our necessary path to new life as one united community.
In
the Old Testament, the Lord God asks three basic things of us: to be kind, to
be slow in making rash negative judgments, and to be merciful. Kindness is
under-rated because it is seen as a condition of weakness, but we never explore
its surprising power to change the course of lives. Judging – It is far better
for us to respond rather than to react because we will probably get unexpected
insights and a softened heart as we compassionately listen to another person.
Mercy, well, this is our year to learn how to love better. Jesus in the New
Testament asks us to learn two traits from him – to be gentle and humble of
heart, often qualities dismissed by this world’s standards, but they carry the
wisdom of the cross as Paul writes about in 1st Corinthians.
Kindness, a compassionate understanding heart, mercy, gentleness, and humility:
Our grudges, Herodias’s grudge, have no power in the face of these. This is the
way forward in mercy. They give life and build up.
We
start at the cusp of a new year. Is it possible to start afresh? Can we move
forward, forgetting whatever it is that lays in the past and forge deeper
friendships in the Lord? Life is much more enjoyable when we embrace and
welcome and reconcile. Can God transform any lingering grudges we have into new
possibilities? New hopes? Of course. Through Christ’s mercy, John the Baptist
lives on. Through mercy, someone you do not expect may give you new life.
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