Second Sunday in Ordinary Time
January 19, 2014
Isaiah 49:3, 5-6;
Psalm 40; 1 Corinthians 1:1-3; John 1:29-34
The
author of the Fourth Gospel well knows the stories contained in Mark, Matthew,
and Luke, so it is a little perplexing that he presents John the Baptist as a
man who has never met Jesus before his baptism. He is not the cousin of Jesus
as Luke infers, and his unfamiliarity with Jesus heightens the moment because,
as you remember, the author says that Jesus was sent into world to dwell among
us. He was in the world, and the world came to be through him, but the world
did not know him. John’s importance in singled out when he sees Jesus coming
toward him and he says, “Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the
world.” John testifies to him as the one who ranks ahead of him because he
existed before John. Through this exchange grace replaces the law given through
Moses, and grace and truth comes about through Jesus Christ.
Grace
is present everywhere in this story – from John’s rec0gnition of the great
Savior, to his interior certitude that his mission is fulfilled, to the Spirit
gently descending upon Jesus like a dove, and to his joy that he holds onto the
truth. John steps out of the ways, as we say, gracefully, so that a new era can
begin. What is grace and how do we know when we have it? Grace is most simply
the presence of God, and we know we have it when our hearts are filled with
warm thoughts like peace, gentleness, humility, simplicity, easiness, and
contentment. We daydream about beautiful moments and we work towards a
promising future. We recognize that our hearts have the ability to love and to
see new aspects of life that we have overlooked.
Of
course, we stop grace from happening all the time because we want to control. We
declare to ourselves, “I have judged myself to be a loving person. I don’t need
to hear this message. This other person is not a loving person, and needs to
hear these words.” We can be quite arrogant and self-assured, and at the same
time dead wrong. I love one of Pope Francis’ lines when he says; “God is
knocking at your door all the time. Have we put a sign on the door saying: “Do
not disturb?” What will it take for God and others to get through? We all know
when a person is fighting grace because the person is unhappy, critical of
others, erupts in anger, gossips, is devious, and builds coalitions to destroy
another person.
How do we deal with someone who is
in such pain? I wish I knew, but the fact is we are powerless to penetrate into
someone’s struggle unless they first open the door – even if it is just a
crack. The important point for us to realize is that the person is struggling
with their God, not with you or me. It is not our problem to solve because it
is way beyond our responsibility to satisfy another person’s needs. For
example, I’ll make this personal. If someone is angry with me as pastor, it is
really about a larger issue the person is avoiding. It is not about me. They
might their anger to me, and they will try to hurt me because they have not
been able to reconcile what is broken in their lives, but it is not at all
about me.
The reasons can vary in innumerable ways. It might be an illusion they hold about how a priest-pastor should act, in their opinion, and they cannot destroy that illusion. It can be that they have lost their place of privilege that the former pastor let them hold and they are struggling with a disassembled sense of security. Their fragile sense of self and place in society has to be rebuilt and they do not know how. It can be that they simply cannot control the priest-pastor in the way they had been able to in the past and their unhealthy behaviors are being called to light. They want the priest to be an extension of themselves and the misplace their source of needs satisfaction. Since they have not developed healthy coping mechanisms, they strike out at the one who brings balance to the larger world order, and of course, the priest-pastor is supposed to be the righteous target for everything. Nothing that I could do is satisfying because their illusions are out of balance, and they do not know how to solve problems in a way that addresses their unmet needs, and it is always safer to the self to criticize others than to be introspective. O.K. So that was an example that I could personalize, but replace priest-pastor with parent, boss, employee, relative, friend, and the same situations occur.
The reasons can vary in innumerable ways. It might be an illusion they hold about how a priest-pastor should act, in their opinion, and they cannot destroy that illusion. It can be that they have lost their place of privilege that the former pastor let them hold and they are struggling with a disassembled sense of security. Their fragile sense of self and place in society has to be rebuilt and they do not know how. It can be that they simply cannot control the priest-pastor in the way they had been able to in the past and their unhealthy behaviors are being called to light. They want the priest to be an extension of themselves and the misplace their source of needs satisfaction. Since they have not developed healthy coping mechanisms, they strike out at the one who brings balance to the larger world order, and of course, the priest-pastor is supposed to be the righteous target for everything. Nothing that I could do is satisfying because their illusions are out of balance, and they do not know how to solve problems in a way that addresses their unmet needs, and it is always safer to the self to criticize others than to be introspective. O.K. So that was an example that I could personalize, but replace priest-pastor with parent, boss, employee, relative, friend, and the same situations occur.
Recognizing that a person is
fighting his or her own demons allows us to be free of the dysfunction into
which the other person wants to drag us. We can still receive the grace God
offers and we can love the person who is unhappy and suffering even if she
cannot love herself. Miserable people have no power over you to make you
miserable. The beauty of grace is that we can be joyful and see the Lord in all
things and marvel at the extraordinary moments of grace in the many people
around us. Our hearts can beam with such joy even as we sit next to a person
who continually rejects grace.
Jesus, the Word of God, the One to
whom we must listen, the source of all grace, was rejected because the world
did not know him. This did not stop him. He went forward to become the Lamb of
God who takes away the sins of the world so that more and more people could
access the grace he wants to give. Whatever you do this week, look for the
signs that the Lamb of God gives you. Pay attention to those who recognize him
and point you to him. They are doing it because they love you. Accept the
signs. Listen. Let your heart explode like Ebenezer scrooge or the Grinch. They
do it because they love you. You just cannot see it. They do it because they
are full of grace and the Lord is with them.
Themes for this Week’s Masses
First
Reading: Samuel the prophet scolds Saul, the leader of
Israel because he disobeyed the Lord’s commands. He vanquished the Amalekites
as instructed, but they pounced on the spoils, which displeased the Lord. As
Saul was rejected as king, Samuel grieved for him, but the Lord instructed him
to go forth and appoint a new king. He traveled to Bethlehem to visit Jesse in
search of the one upon whom the Lord’s favor would fall. The eldest sons were
passed over until David was presented. David spoke to Saul and said, “I am at
your service to go and fight the giant Philistine.” In the ensuing battle, the
Lord’s favor was on David as he challenged the Philistine and in a surprise
twist of fate killed him. David’s fame spread and people sang and danced in the
streets. They praised him to the ire of Saul, who then set out to kill David
and Saul’s son Jonathan. Jonathan decided to reconcile the forces and brought
David to Saul, and David served him as before. Saul’s envy remained and he took
three thousand men and went in search of David and his men. David cut off an
end of Saul’s mantle and then had a change of heart because Saul remained his
master. David reassured Saul of his fidelity, and Saul recognized the
generosity and goodness of David. He relinquished his assault and Saul declared
that, “you, David, shall surely be king.” ~ The conversion of Paul attests to
his former life as a persecutor of Christians to a man who became the church’s
greatest missionary.
Gospel:
The disciples of John and the Pharisees question the feasting practices of the
disciples of Jesus. Jesus tells them that his disciples recognize the presence
of the Lord in their midst and rejoice that God is with them. Jesus and his
disciples passed through field of grain on the Sabbath and because nibbling on
the heads of grain. Jesus points to the example of King David who shared his
food with his companions because they were hungry and it was the right thing to
do. A man with a withered hand entered
the synagogue where Jesus and the Pharisees were debating about the lawfulness
to do good on the Sabbath. Jesus forgave the sins of the man and also head his
deformity. Jesus withdrew toward the sea with his disciples and a large number
of people followed from Galilee and Judea. His fame spread and people from all
over came to him. Even the unclean spirits worshiped him as they shouted, “You
are the Son of God.” Jesus then went up the mountain to pray and summoned those
he wanted as his inner circle. When he came down, he announced the name of
twelve men who would become the reconstituted Twelve Tribes of Jacob. ~ On the
conversion of Paul, Jesus appeared to the Eleven and said, “Go into the whole
world and proclaim the Gospel to every creature. Whoever believes and is
baptized will be saved.” Paul gives us the example of doing everything that
Jesus commanded.
Saints of the Week
January 20: Fabian, pope and martyr (d. 250), was a
layman and stranger in Rome during the time of his election as pope. A dove
settled on his head, which reminded people of the descent of the Holy Spirit in
the form of a dove during the baptism. He served for 14 years until his
martyrdom.
January 20: Sebastian, martyr (d. 300), was buried
in the catacombs in Rome. He hailed from Milan and is often pictured with many
arrows piercing his body. Much of what we know about him is legend.
January 21: Agnes, martyr (d. 305), is one of the
early Roman martyrs. Little is known about her but she died around age 12
during a persecution. Because of her names connection with a lamb, her
iconography depicts her holding a lamb to remind us of her sacrifice and
innocence.
January 23: Marianne Cope (1838-1918), was a German-born
woman who settled with her family in New York. She entered the Franciscans and
worked in the school systems as a teacher and principal and she helped to
establish the first two Catholic hospitals. She went to Honolulu, then Molokai,
to aid those with leprosy.
January 24: Francis de Sales, bishop and doctor
(1567-1622), practiced both civil and canon law before entering religious
life. He became bishop of Geneva in 1602 and was prominent in the Catholic
Reformation. He reorganized his diocese, set up a seminary, overhauled
religious education, and found several schools. With Jane Frances de Chantal,
he founded the Order of the Visitation of Mary.
January 25: The Conversion of Paul, the Apostle, was
a pivotal point in the life of the early church. Scripture contains three
accounts of his call and the change of behavior and attitudes that followed.
Paul's story is worth knowing as it took him 14 years of prayer and study to
find meaning in what happened to him on the road to Damascus.
This Week in Jesuit History
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Jan 19, 1561. In South Africa, the
baptism of the powerful King of Monomotapa, the king's mother, and 300 chiefs
by Fr. Goncalvo de Silveira.
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Jan 20, 1703. At Paris, the death of
Fr. Francis de la Chaise, confessor to Louis XIV and a protector of the French
Church against the Jansenists.
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Jan 21, 1764. Christophe de Beaumont,
Archbishop of Paris, wrote a pastoral defending the Jesuits against the attacks
of Parliament. It was ordered to be burned by the public executioner.
·
Jan 22, 1561. Pius IV abrogated the
decree of Paul II and kept the life term of Father General.
·
Jan 23, 1789. John Carroll gained the
deed of land for the site that was to become Georgetown University.
·
Jan 24, 1645. Fr. Henry Morse was led
as a prisoner from Durham to Newgate, London. On hearing his execution was fixed
for February 1, he exclaimed: "Welcome ropes, hurdles, gibbets, knives,
butchery of an infamous death! Welcome for the love of Jesus, my Savior."
·
Jan 25, 1707. Cardinal Tournon,
Apostolic Visitor of the missions in China, forbade the use of the words 'Tien'
or 'Xant' for God and ordered the discontinuance by the Christians of the
Chinese Rites.
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