Spirtuality: On Mysticsm by Anthony de Mello, S.J.

"How does one seek union with God?"
"The harder you seek, the more distance you create between Him and you."

"So what does one do about the distance?"
"Understand that it isn't there."

"Does that mean that God and I are one?"
"Not one. Not two."

"How is that possible?"
"The sun and its light, the ocean and the wave, the singer and his song

-- not one.
Not two."